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Help me please..am in depression

sinduri (student) (24 Points)

30 March 2011

Dear CCI Members,am sinduri.am a pcc student ,I have given my pcc for 4times.but couldnt crack the exam..in my 4th attempt i secured 277marks(acc-48,audit-52,law-39) n (cost -50,tax-48, itsm-40)........now am feeling very depressed that i didnt clear exam .last time paper was easy but still i couldnt clear..i have started my preperation n am done iwd accounts n cost subjects only..am just worried whether i will clear or not,,am feeling bad because am unable to crack ca inter level ..........sometime am even feeling to quit studies..number of negative thoughts r coming to my mind while studying ...i hate myself a lot now..i dont even want to live the life..please friends motivate me in this tough situation of mine......help me please...........

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venkat (NIL) (111 Points)
Replied 30 March 2011

give one grp at a time if u r not able to handle the load,keep another road open as it will relieve pressure,i would strongly advice u to join cs as it is much easier compared to ca,it is easy to pass, the simple reason being huge demand supply gap,the number of cs is very less hence they are in a desperate position and passing every tom d**k and harry ,once the demand is satisfied the results may not be that good ,hence join at the earliest .CS has great scope with minimum efforts .the results are between 40-50 percent at present.ALL THE BEST.LIFE IS AHEAD OF U DONT WORRY.BE PRACTICAL.

(Guest)

hi sinduri.pls dont loose hope.jst dont think about pass or fail jst think urself as a ca and it wud act as a driving force for u to put in more efforts.nw u cannot afford to b depressed.its time to show it to others that what u r and what ur capabilities r.prove everybody wrong.pls dont let ur weaknesses overpower u.its time to tighten up ur belt and gv ur best shot.jst dont think what u scored earlier nw its history think abt ur future as a ca and jst go for it."when going gets tough ,then tough gets going".hv confidence in urself and ur destiny.if u r here that means u r destined to b ca nw pls dont back out jst bcoz of fear of failure jst gv ur best and leave rest to god.god help those who help themselves.so jst go for it.show it to others what u r.its time to stand up and live up ur dream.jst dont panic.u r jst few steps away from ur dream.nw pls dont stop.i hv confidence that u'll come out with flying colours.jst listen to urself and ingnore whatever discourages u and gv ur best shot and pls dont deprive urself of experiencing the feel to b ca final student jst bcoz of some negative thoughts.jst b positive.hv faith in ur hard work and god and go write ur exams and get thru.all the very very best.

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chandan ghosh (none) (196 Points)
Replied 30 March 2011

it can be understood what you are feeling now coz many are facing the same condition or say "state of mind"........

my personal experience says that determination is the only thing , should be in your attitude....

i quit my may 10 exam in between knowing that my cost paper did not go well, then i worked hard and brought some innovative idea of studies and focused more on subjects which seemed tough or required more attention....through out that period the only thing was in my mind....."""yes i can and i will"" ....IN NOV 10 ,i just focused on group1 and cleared that.

negativity and failure is obvious but it depends on us" how do we tackle that"?....

share your feelings with your friends (good ones bt not those "so called friends") they will surely keep your morale high becoming pillers of strenght.....a good companionship may take you out of this difficult situation.

see the positive side of yourself.

look at those numbers....don't you think you have got moderate marks?? you just missed in aggregate. koi baat nahi iss baar Ye bhi ho jayega......JUST BELIEVE IN URSELF.....

i would suggest that you attempt 1st group only and if you wish then attempt both but keep one of them as secondary.....reason is obvious....

don't think "" i don't want to live life""......just imagine the extreme happiness you will get after passing this...and wo happiness toh life ko ji ke hi milega na!!! life is beautiful....MORE THAN that of CA PROFESSION....:-)

and one thing more ......have " I CAN DO IT" kind of attitude....everything will be alright......

it worked for me ..hope so it will work for you either....

Prashantjha (audit assistant) (68 Points)
Replied 30 March 2011

Dear Sinduri,

i will advise u not to get depressed by things which have happened till now. Every new day gives us a fresh start of life, we need to capitalise those period by doing positive things and having a positive attitude.
See, what has happened till now is a matter of past, u must know this CA which is considered as one of the toughest professsional exams in the world and u r daring enough to attempt it. U r not the only one who have failed to secure pass marks in four attempt at inter level, there are many students who have devoted there life to secure the pass marks.

Thinking positively i will advise u to give the coming attempt with full preparation.Try to find the flaws in urs and just rectify them. My personal belief, always go for both groups.Dont think about what has happened think what could happen? Never ever think of quitting this test. After all u have to prove that u can do it. and u will do it . For sure.

With best wishes..

Prashant

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Sadashivan (Jr.Telecom Officer) (57 Points)
Replied 30 March 2011

STOP WORRING...START FIGHTING.... THIS IS TIME FOR U TO WON PCC IN 5TH ATTEMPT... MY SON COMPLETED PCC IN 5TH ATTEMPT...DONT NERVES... U WILL BE HAPPY SURELY AFTER ATTENDING NEX ATTEMPT.....

MY DEAR CHILD U WILL BE WINNER ...DURING MAY 2011.... HOPE ALL THE BEST..

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Aditya20 (na) (113 Points)
Replied 30 March 2011

JUST HAVE A FAITH IN UR SELF U CAN DO IT AND BEST OF LUCK.

(Guest)

Build a new strategy.... focus on your goal... push the limits and bounce back.

There must something wrong .. first find out which paper is bothering you... if its a practical paper like ACC, COST/FM or TAX then most probably ur short of practise, just completing the whole syllabus is not enough.. practise as much as you can... do alll the last year sums ..repeat it many times, dont look at the answers ..solve it on ur own ..this will sharp ur brain and clear the concept. Do the practical parts everyday and within alloted time per sum.

If you are facing prolbem in theory part... then keep on revising theory, dont wait for the last days before ur exam to complete ur theory, and after you have completed y9our theory , then solve compiler , practise writing the theory answers on ur own.. this will increase ur writting speed & improve ur presentation skill .. WORK HARD THIS TIME... JUST LIVE FOR STUDY .... YOU WILL DEFINITELY CLEAR IT ..

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CA. Dashrath Maheshwari (TaXpert) (15090 Points)
Replied 31 March 2011

However from only one attempt, no one can analyse your studies but still it looks that you are good overall and best on practicle subjects.

To learn theoritical, concentration is required... always go for early morning walk, keep a jug of water (Normal water only) while studying, and if you can, paste motivational posters on front wall where you study.

YOU CAN DO IT

CA. Dashrath Maheshwari (TaXpert) (15090 Points)
Replied 31 March 2011

However from only one attempt, no one can analyse your studies but still it looks that you are good overall and best on practicle subjects.

YOU CAN DO IT

Abhishek Jain (RisK Manger) (231 Points)
Replied 31 March 2011

obstracles are one that distinguish leaders from crowd.

remenber iron gets its shape after being moulded hard in furnance

just think last 4 attempts were not your day

just thinks this is my day & i am better than all as i have studied IPCC 5 times than crowd sitting with studying it once

go for glory.u will succseed.

Ashish (CA in Service) (32 Points)
Replied 31 March 2011

Originally posted by : sinduri

Hi Sinduri,

Exams are not only to check your knowladge but it is also a test of your patience. Which is very useful for your future also.

Cracking the exams are not so difficult.

You can try this :

Take a little gap during study . Like at every 1 hour take a rest for 5 min.

Try to read in early morning and less at late night. As sound sleep is very useful to keep mind fresh next day.

If u r distracted during your study, you can also take "Padmasan" (Yoga) for 5 min. after 10 days you will feel you can consantrate more.

Don't Eat rich food.

and last, if possible : Change the style of your reading and Study. As when you raed a topic, don't just go for heading but also read text inside the paragraph and try to understand the matter.

Hope this will help you

Arun Kumar (articled Assistant) (28 Points)
Replied 31 March 2011

Hey.. Failure is the stepping stone to success. Just try to find out where u have been making mistakes and try to improvise on those areas. Study everytime as if it is the first time. Things will start changing automatically. Shre your thoughts to your parents or to your close ones. Weigh all your options and take a wise decision in the end. All izz Well!!!! All the best for your future.

With Affection

Arun Kumar

Ganesh.S.Kumar (Consulting Executive) (852 Points)
Replied 31 March 2011

whenever u feel like quitting just think why u took up this course.you are not the only one who meets with such failures.there are lot of others also.for example me.i wrote PE-2 four times and this may i will be writing final for the 6th time.fight for what you believe and never back down.

siddharth (student) (131 Points)
Replied 08 September 2011

hope you cleared , even i was in this situation , watch : " the Secret ", it helped . just tell yourself " i will get it done this time " and you definitely will .