God doesnt seem to show mercy yet

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Ashwin

Service

182 Points Joined October 2007

Hi friends...

Just wanted to share my state of mind with you all. Its definitely pathetic since i havent cleared both groups of finals for last 3 attempts. I have always lost only on aggregate. Somehow i have never managed above 49 in any paper except 59 marks in accounts last time. The road ahead seems very dark. I know a set of 30 people who started teh course and have all cleared. I feel i have given all that is possible from my end already and still clueless about what is going wrong. Since the day of result, i have kept myself locked indoors.

I have never expected myself to qualify in the first sitting but keeping both groups pending despite 3 attempts is painfull and not even an exemption. At times i feel i should quit but at the sametime i feel i would achieve it someday. The feeling of being abondoned by friends, relatives who are highly successful has occupied my mind.

How do i come out of this.....???? Is this destiny or what???

Regards,

Ashwin

Replies (5)

lakshay

ipcc

581 Points Joined January 2011

listen bro..first of all never think of leaving it now.i know how hard it would for you to digest failure.

i suppose that you are not working smart.only working hard is not enough..revise the course again and again after understanding the concepts.

if you belive that you are giving your 100% then just leave it to god...bro CA is not the biggest thing in life..i have seen my dad(he is a ca)friends who are ca and they are only earning 15-20 k per month..your hard work is being accumulated with god and trust me in future it will come in the form of luck..and then your friends would be saying that ..we both are working hard , then why you are getting more salary or some other thing ..so never think that your hard work is being wasted ...do not worry what people are thinking .remember that you dont need to take or give anything from people ..so why to worry about them..god bless you :)

CA Abhinav

Chartered Accountant

496 Points Joined June 2009

@ puneet............ R U kidding 15 to 20k for qualified CA and that too for experienced ones..........think again.......my elder brother cleared CA final in 4th attempt ,now having an experience of 5+ post qualification is working with one of the big four audit firm and is getting handsome salary........

Sourav Banerjee MA,MSW

Shabda Bramha

8847 Points Joined July 2011

Dear Ashwin,

Please go through this -

/forum/details.asp?mod_id=188929&offset=3 and share your performance in the analysis.

( Prepared by CA SURENDRA KUMAR RAKHECHA Sir )

Looking forward to your reply.

lakshay

ipcc

581 Points Joined January 2011

dude they are working in jaipur..they neither have pleasent personality nor have good communication skills...

CA Abhinav

Chartered Accountant

496 Points Joined June 2009

@ puneet then in that case its nothing to do with CA course, its about their own problems...........even if u do MBA or any other course and u don't have the right attitude and communication skills then outcome will be same as u r descirbing.........one more thing my bro didn't had the excellent communication skills either u can say it average and he did his schooling from govt school......but he learnt it quickly while working so its all about own personality and adaptibility to surroundings........