John was born with no arms.
But he never questioned,"Why do I have no arms?"
The question he asked was, "What can I do with my feet?"
Having watched John eat with chopsticks, I'd say, "Almost anything!"
When tragedy strikes,or when we lose everything, or when a lover walks out on us, the question we usually ask is
"Why?"
"Why me?"
"Why now?"
"Why did he/s leave me for a loser?"
Asking "Why?" questions can send us in circles.
Often, there is no answer to "Why?"
Or it doesn't matter why!
Effective people ask "What?" questions ....
"What do I learn from this?"
"What am I going to do about it?"
When the situation is desperate, they ask,
"What can I do, just in the next 24 hours, to make things better?"
*****The happiest people don't bother about whether life is "fair".
They just make the most of what they have.
So,let us also don't complain & just move forward.
Enjoy all...!!!.
CAclubindia
