Feeling inferior

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If u are a CA student and u doing self study and a friend of urs is doing it by coachings and continuously always says that or tonts by ssaying " u are doing a lot studies b coz u dont have coachings to go" or " Kuch zyada hi padai kar rahe ho ap toh" even if he knws that we arent doing as much as he does also always tries to check our knowledge by asking some or orther quetions then do u feel guilty?

In my office a guy always told me the same way or tonts in front of seniors and whole office staff?

i sometimes feel very guilty and even depressed....

what should i do to shut his mouth.....?????

i feel that if he will tont me then i cant study any more

i cant concentrate on my studies.......................

what should i do?

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 Dont say anything to them. U knw, Kutta baunkta rehta hain....lol 

 This is common yaar. You may have to face more than this in future after you become CA. You cant shut people's mouth. Even if u do something or not, they keep on commenting .

So,let them tell , dont concentrate on their words, u do ur work. Study well. All the best.

 Nothing to worry, its normal things which happening in life, people want to pull down and make you feel guilty..You should be dare person when you feel down they will try to make our more down, think positive way if they ask something be ready to answer and shut there mouths. Nothing is there self or coaching everything its in your hand, so many failed by going coaching also ok now you think if someone ask you some question and which you dont know, dont worry get ready for that question and thank him for asking that question and which you dint know of that and you can get prepared of that..See in life will learn lot which you know some people doesnt know and what they know we will not be knowing....People always make down other people because they dont know how to go top, who will go top they will not make down others they will take them too top..



Moral: Think positive way, think your reaching towards one step top to your goal and others still behind you of trying you to pull you down...Life is simple it feels how you think, 

ALL THE BEST DO WELL, BY SELF STUDY SO MANY REACHED THERE GOALS . YOU CAN ALSO DO.

just ignore him and do ur studies. shut his mouth by preparing more harder

I would say even you should tease them that they need coaching to pass and you diont need it and still you will proove them that you can do much better then them.

Show your Women power !! Why to bother re... Ek kahavat he na hindi me......."Haathi ke piche kutte bhokte rahte he ... "

Never Mind :) cheers :)

Dont feel yourself alone... Give us your helping hand and will show them that you caqn do much better !!! "My friend got 13th rank though he did not go for any coaching classes from class 1st" !! Believe it ???

 Self study is one of the best methods of acquiring knowledge. Coaching is available for passing the exams but merely attending coaching will not make you a good Chartered Accountant. You have to pursue it yourself.

 

Knowledge earned through self study is always better than that acquired through coaching because in the professional life there will be numerous changes in the laws, regulations, professional opportunities. If one has the habit of depending on coaching to acquire knowledge it would be difficult for him/her to adopt with fast changing professional environment. Coaching is like giving a hungry man a fish, and self study is like teaching that man how to fish. The former will meet his needs in short run but the latter, eventhough requires much efforts in initial period, will ensure that he has enough food for rest of his life.

Those who taunt you for not joining coaching seem to be incapable of studying on their own.

hey neha......

People have the right to speak and they do speak whatever they want.... But if we start paying heed to all such things people talk, it will make us highly depressed.........!!

Let the people think and talk whatever........... U walk on ur own path and believe in yourself.... try ignoring them once or twice, and they will stop the next time...!!

Everyone has their own way of doing things and that is always the best........Beleive in it...........This is my success mantra..........!!

So..........Don't you feel inferior dear and go ahead paying no heed to those people who tend to make you feel so..........!!
 

Regards

Madhumita

No one can feel you inferior without your consent.

Ek thappar lagao usko.

tab jake ke akal thikane aayi gi.

beleive me sirf ek thappar mein hi sudhar jaega.

If he say again try this.........it will work


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