anokheee si 'vo'........atma darpan

every child is spl..  ‘CHAITANYAA’  bhi...

log aisey he hotey hain, ya to  wo dartey hain, ya fir pareshaan kartey hain...

honestly its, Hard to live, when other's don't let live...

Par eak insaan bhi kafi hota hai, sabki kami poori karney k liye, agar wo Chaitanyaa ko purey dil se aapnaye, aur har kadam pe uska saath de..

Agar chaitanyaa meri beti hoti, to main late office jata, aur pehele uske saath school jata, aur spl. permission le k class b attened karta, 

aur mere hotey hue, koi meri baachi ko kuch kehe k to bataye 

Its simple, u jus be than one person for her.. Usey justice nahi, saath chaheye...

That wud make her strong, jissey wo jo hua, un sabko maaf karsakegi.. Aur aagey se usey aisa kuch sehena bhi nahi padega... 

"jakar usse milo aur use uski naam ki importance batao..... "chaitanyaa" ka matlab hota he  "aatma "..... usse kaho ki asli chaitanyaa jo sabko dikhai deti he woh nahin he , asli chaitanyaa  to bahut sundar he aur woh aur bhi sundar ban sakti he agar woh apne under se dar , akelapan, inferiority complex ko bhaga de aur intelligence , motivation bhar le aur khud se pyar karna seekh jae ..... "

 "uski best friend ban jao.... aur uska hosla badhao.... its true that when we r getting negativity from all side hum toot jate hain.... usko padhai ki aur uske khud ki  importance samjhao.... if she have father or brother/sister talk with them about  her and her status of mind and let them know that she need them very deeply .... woh 12th mein hai to itni choti bhi nahin ki kuch samajhe bhi nahin.... she need someone who love her , ofcourse there would be many who would be loving her jaise uske family members uske neighbours ya uski purani school ki friends ... use yeh sab yaad dilao....... tumne 'jassi jesi koi nahin' yeh serial dekha to hoga hi na . jassi bhi dusro ke liye ajeeb thi par uska plus point tha uski knowledge aur uski family uska dedication and self motivation...... tum bhi usko yeh sab batein yaad dila sakti ho .... . .... "

well puja i m really very impressed from u and very happy to have u as my friend..... a friend who have such a great heart ...... thanks for being my friend...

and also consider what sonu sir has written above........ " u just be that one person for her.. Usey justice nahi, saath chaheye... " .....

ek aur baat..... us se kehna ki ab use rona nahin he aur wesa banana he jesa uski mummy  usko banana chahti thi ....  tell her that  uski mummy hamesha use dekh rahi he aur hamesha uske saath he .... woh roegi to unhe dukh hoga......

Hi I agree to what Sonu & Meera hav said..                                                                                                                                  Also i wld like to add ... Tum Chaitanya ko samjhao ke Duniya mein itne log hain sab hamare baare mein alag sochte hain Aur wo bhi galat so it is nt pssble 4 us k hum sabki battey sunein agar hum sabki baato par dhyan denge to hum to pagal hi ho jayenge aur it won't bhi possble 4 us to live ...Aur yeh hamari Zindgi hai kisi Aur ki nahi hame koi farak nahi padna chaiye k dusra hamare baare mein kya sochta hai.. Hame sirf uski soch ki parwa karni chahiye jo hame pyaar karte hain ... , jinhe hamse umeede hain .. naki avenhi kisi ki bhi ...Balki Chaitanya ko to ye challenge ki tarah lena chahiye aur decide karna chahiye k chahe kuch bhi ho jaye un sab logo se jo uska majak udate hain un sab se ek din bada banna aur apne aap ko Apne capablity ko prove karna ...Aur sachchi mein if her Mother will c her cry Then She will also cry ... And Ask Chaitanya whthr She wants her mother To Cry .... Usse please samjhana it's nt easy to survive in today's cruel world You have to be strong enough to fight back...Usse kehna those people shld nt be so important for her... It's only her family & dear one's who are important ,not every1 in ths world !!!! Usko ye bhi kehna ke jabtak tum apne aap ko kamjor samjhoge Dusra banda tumhe Strong kyun samjhega......  We all knw She is a very brave Girl  and we all are her frnds so she shld nt feel herself 2 b lonely..... 

i really thnx to first to all who give their answer here.......its very very gud yaar..........i read all the answers........

i m very much agry wid neha agrawal's answer.........its really my thinking also..........the same like neha.......

Now i m telling for ur questions..tht......

Doston zindagi tumhari hai ye kisi aur ki nahi hai sirf tumhari hi hai to plz unke bare mai kabhi mat socho ki kon kya kehta hai?????? kya dekhta hai kya karta hai???????only listen ur Heart only n only............Zindagi ek chalti train hi hai....har station mai koi na koi utarta hai aur koi na koi chadta bhi hai na.........but train ko kisi se koi matlab nahi hota hai.......bas wo apna kaam karte jati hai bas chalti jati hai .........So doton life bhi sirf aisi hi hai.......har baar koi na koi apni life mai aayega bhi aur jayega bhi..........so sabki suno but karo apne dil ki apne mann ki.........

jaise train kisi k liye nahi rukti same waise hi tum bhi mat rukna kabhi bas chalte jaoo.......aage badte jaoo.....

zindagi mai .........bas zindagi hi chahiye dost.........

I really miss them now.......who really written ths 1 n given a chance in life for answering here..........THNX.....POOJA

Life isssss... beautiful , So live it & don't  waste it for other irrelevant people....