CHANGE WITH LOVE
when you have love for yourself than only you can forgive yourself.
Love gives you the power to forgive. Just as you find it easy to forgive a person you love, when you have love for yourself you can forgive yourself too. It is only then can you find yourself learning and progressing without making yourself heavy.
When you find yourself making a mistake, remind yourself that if you have to progress in life you have to forgive yourself. Learn from your mistake in such a way that you never repeat it and forgive yourself. Then you'll be able to move forward with lightness.
The one way to change others is to deal with them with love.
When you have love for others, you will have good wishes for them. Your desire to change them will then be for their good and not for your own selfishness. Others will quickly respond to your unselfish love and you will find them changing.
Think of one person you want to bring about a change in. Before you think of changing that person let there be a lot of love for that person in your mind.
Also make sure the change you want in the other person is for his own good and not for your own selfish reason.