At times when we try to go ahead in life to be a successful person, there are some aspects in our personal life which drags us from moving ahead. There are some obstacles which drives us away from our journey towards our goals. These obstacles can be of various kinds like lack of motivation, concentration, self esteem, disturbing past, unhealed pain etc.
We often feel if this was not there we could have been in a much better place. Now the bad part is it will be there. But the good part is we have the calibre inside us to deal with it. Its just that we need to find the right attitude to deal with it.
Lack of motivation – I will not say to read motivational book. Instead be in love with your Goal. Make its achievement as your only passion. The motivation will come from inside. Your passion will motivate you.
Lack of concentration – You would have always heard that do meditation. That’s important but really difficult. A simple way is have group discussions. Like as you are doing CA, discuss about the topics they studied. Try to cover those topics till the next time you meet. That is healthy competition. Pick up a particular imp topic and have group discussion on it. It will make concentration easy.
Self Esteem – Remind yourself that you have enough potential and capability to do it. Give your best. If you feel low do something which you are good at like playing musical instrument, singing or creative writing. It will change your mood, make you feel good and give you a boost.
Disturbing Past – Make peace with your past. If you have something that bothers you, remember that it has gone. Its existence is no more there in your life. Let it go for your betterment. Forgive and forget.
Unhealed Pain – This might be due to loosing a loved one. It seems that it was very unjust on their part as they went away. If they had to go away why did they came. Just remember people come in your life for a reason, for a season or for lifetime. The role of that person is over in your life. They have gone to make space for a new one to enter your life whom you really need to learn new lessons of life.
Similarly, any other issues that is creating a hurdle in your way, cross that hurdle with correct approach. After that nothing can stop you to achieve it.
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