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Success story of India’s First Visually Impaired Chartered Accountant

Rajni Gopal is India’s first visually impaired woman to become a Chartered Accountant. Currently working with India’s leading software companies, it has taken Rajani immense grit, perseverance and patience to reach where she stands.

Rajani Gopal has come a long way after losing her eye sight. She treads on paths that make even sighted people think twice before taking up. Behind this chartered accountant, Veena player and social worker, lies a determined woman who has defied all logic when it comes to success. Let’s talk to Rajani Gopal and find out more about her.

You work with a reputed IT company. Tell us about your job profile.

I work in the Finance Department. My profile is to work on Indian & U.S.A. Generally Accepted Accounting Practices.

Where were you working before your current assignment? How did you get this break?

I was working for Indian Group of Hotels as Community co-ordinator. I had sent my bio-data to the placement cell of I.C.A.I. and that is how I got this break.

How have you adjusted to your work environment and how have your colleagues responded.

It has been comfortable to adjust to work environment as I am quite versatile on computers. Moreover my work to a large extent is on those applications that extensively support screen reading software.

My colleagues respond very sensibly. There is no discrimination of any sort. Now they know when I need assistance and come forward to give the same. The work atmosphere is very comfortable and friendly.

blind-ca1Becoming a C.A. is a tough task even for sighted people. As a blind person what motivated you to take up this subject and how did you manage?

That is what many told me when I thought of taking up C.A. as a career. But let me tell you, determination and commitment can help you achieve those milestones which seem difficult otherwise.

I lost vision in my right eye by the time I completed my graduation. I faced few interviews where my candidature was not considered because of my vision problem. I realised that I should have a better education to get a decent and dignified job. At this juncture I came to know about Chartered Accountancy. By this time I had learnt to pursue my studies on my own. I thought if I can pursue B.Com on my own then why not C.A.?

Of course, pursuing the course was not easy. It would be difficult for me to read for long time. I had to read keeping the book close to my eyes. Commuting was also quite difficult. For a moment my spirits would be shattered. But I would realise that this is not the way to tackle a problem. I will have to find out ways and means of solving this. I would read for sometime and then close my eyes and try to recollect whatever I would have studied. This way I was not wasting my time and was also giving rest to my eyes, which I needed the most. As far as commuting was concerned, I would prefer to walk short distances, as catching the public transport was difficult. For long distances, invariably I would take the public transport. It was quite risky but I had to take the calculated risk.

After I lost vision in my left eye too, I had to look for means to continue my studies and clear my examinations. But the important hurdle was to accept that I am visually challenged. This did take some time as I would relate myself with my friends who either had a good job or were happily married. I realised that I should come out of this trauma. Sahaja Yoga meditation came to my rescue. The meditation gave the overall balance which I needed the most. I realised that I should accept the situation and go ahead, instead of brooding. I came to know about the screen reading software and learnt how to use computers. My urge to pursue the course was rekindled. I got all the materials converted to soft copy and started studying. For few subjects I took the assistance of volunteers. I also had to learn how to communicate with the scribe, as I was availing scribe facility for the first time.

What are the special assistive tools you use for help at work? Especially when tackling numbers.

As I have already mentioned, I extensively use computers with screen reading software. My assignment does not include going through any written documents. By using Excel and other M.S. Office applications, I am able to manage my job quite comfortably.

How did you develop your eye problem?

I was prescribed penicillin tablets for common cold. This was given without test dosage and resulted in an allergic reaction which in medical terminology is known as “Steven Johnson Syndrome”. My vision started deteriorating gradually. This was coupled with growth of eye lashes inside the eyes which would constantly itch. I had to visit the doctor almost twice a week to get the lashes plucked. But the damage to the cornea was done and doctors were helpless.

Tell us a bit about your school and college days.

Early school days were as any other normal child. After the allergy, things changed. Because of redness in the eyes, quite a few classmates would avoid me. I had to hear to lot of sympathies from relatives and friends. It would be very difficult to listen. I would try to be all alone by myself. I developed the habit of reading to overcome my loneliness. Initially I would cry and weep. As I grew up I didn’t feel like doing that, for I knew that my parents would be disturbed. I learnt to keep all my emotions to myself. I had very few friends.

At my college things were little different. I was matured enough to handle the situation. I did have friends who were sensible enough. In fact in the final year of my graduation, my friends would write the notes for me, get the books from library, for I couldn’t attend the college due to surgery on my right eye.

What kind of support did you get from family and friends?

There was complete support from my immediate family members. Neither my parents nor my brothers made me to feel at any point of time that I had vision problem. My parents would encourage me in all my ventures as they would encourage my brothers. Even after I lost my vision completely, they would behave as if nothing had happened and gave me all the emotional support.

Though I had very few friends, they were quite sensible and helped me whenever I needed them most. Moreover they would boost my confidence and behave as they would with other “normal” friends.

What are your interests and hobbies?

As already mentioned, I practice meditation-Sahaja Yoga. I enjoy cooking. I play chess. I have learnt to play Veena. I listen to lot of music. I volunteer my services to physically, visually and economically challenged students by providing assistance in their studies.

Tell us any interesting experience you’d like to share.

There have been quite a lot of experiences which have moulded my personality.

As my vision deteriorated gradually, I could see the helplessness of doctors and my parents. At such heart breaking moments, each mile stone in my education would motivate me to go further.

But if you want to know of any particular incident that changes the course of my life, I feel this is it.

Around the time when I lost vision in both my eyes, my father was diagnosed with Leukaemia. It was the prime age of my life and with all confusion I was totally lost and mentally upset. One evening when I just couldn‘t control my emotions, my brother recommended me meditation. He advised that I should do it with open mind and take as hypothesis. I could see within a week that my overall personality was in complete balance and I obtained the necessary confidence and inner strength which I needed the most and which any amount of external counselling wouldn’t have done.

Now I feel, everything that happened was with some purpose and has helped me become a better person move ahead in life with greater strength and confidence

  

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Hai..............

Good morning............

Welcome to this forum.....

If I were to ask you, what was the most important characteristic forovercomingprocrastination, for persistence, and long-term achievement, what wouldyou say? Willpower? That would not be an unusual answer, but it wouldbe wrong.

Willpower is vastly overrated as the leading trait used bysuccess-mindedachievers. If we keep this discussion on a scientific level, willpowercannotbe responsible for more than one-sixth of anyone's success.

The real secret to success is your imagination and your ability tovisualizesuccess. This powerful trait is responsible for five-sixths of everygreatachievement.

Suppose that you have set a goal to lose 10 pounds. You are absolutelydetermined to be 10 pounds lighter by next month! You are using yourwillpowerto prove that you are stronger and more powerful than those extracookiesand calories.

So you say to yourself, "I will not overeat... I will not overeat...You repeat thisto yourself over and over again, using your willpower. But all the timeyou areconsciously saying this, your imagination is visualizing how great thosecookies smell, and telling you how great those cookies taste. Sooner orlateryou will grab those cookies or extra calories and chug them down. Why?

Whenever you have a conflict between willpower and your imagination,whenever they are pulling in opposite directions, your imagination willALWAYS win!

But if your willpower and imagination are working together, pullingtowardthe SAME goal, this will create an all-powerful force that is impossibletoovercome, and success is always the automatic, inevitable result.

Now this sounds great, but how does this work scientifically? Mostsources ofself-help tell you "what" you should do. But very few tell you "how" things work. KNOWLEDGE is the real key to success.

Revolutionary brain-science discoveries have been made inthe last few years. In that research lays the proof of the above theoryand howyou can put this to use in your life to overcome procrastination, andreachtranscendent levels of success.

While using a PET scanner to verify that indeed most people solve mathproblems in the left side of the brain, neuroscientists made a startlingdiscovery.

[A PET scanner is used to take a scan-image of the brain. The subject isinjected with a very small amount of radioactive isotopes, then placedin thescanner, in which an electromagnetic device passes a very thinelectromagneticfield through their brain. The part of the brain that is "thinking" atthat time will have excess amounts of blood-flow, which, due to theradiation, shows up on the PET scan.]

In the math function tests, each of the subject's brain scan lit up in asimilar area of their left-brain.

But something else occurred that the scientists had not predicted. Thebrainscan also lit up in 5 other areas of the brain! This was arevolutionary discovery.It verified that your brain is constantly "thinking" on six or morelevelsat once.

In additional testing, subjects were given a math problem to solve and asedative that was slowly increased, until they fell asleep.

What happened? The light on the scan image representing the maththinking,WENT OUT! But the other five areas of the brain scan that were lit,stayed lit.

CONCLUSION? You are constantly thinking on 6 levels at once, but onlyat theconscious level, are you aware of your thoughts and ideas.

The other five areas are known as your nonconscious brain or what usedtobe called the subconscious brain by non-neuroscientists.

When the scan-light went out for the conscious thinking and mathproblem-solving, as each subject fell asleep, all of the other areasstayed lit.

This means that you are always thinking at your nonconscious levels.No matter that you may be consciously asleep.

Your imagination and powers of visualization reside in your nonconsciousbrain.Your willpower resides in the conscious brain.

Your conscious brain represents one-sixth of your brain's thinkingpower.Your nonconscious brain represents five-sixths of your brain's thinkingpower.

Which part of your brain is most important to control? Which is morepowerful:a 500 pound Gorilla or a 100 pound weakling who gets sand kicked in hisface? Do the math!

Your nonconscious brain has five times the power of your consciousbrain.

Therefore anytime you have a conflict between your willpower, whichfunctionsin your conscious brain (1/6), and your imagination, which functions inyournonconscious brain (5/6), who is ALWAYS going to win?

Yep! Your visualization and imagination of the taste of thosecookies-every time!

So what can you do to fix this?

Well there is another scientific principle involved here.

Your mind sees only in pictures. If I were to ask you to close youreyes andremember what you did first thing after you got up this morning, youwould seethis in pictures. You would not see this written on a page of notebookpaperin your brain!

Because you are aware of what you think consciously, your consciousbraincan see things and think things through and filter out negative picturesand givethoughts (mind-pictures) true meaning or perception.

You CANNOT filter out the negatives from your nonconscious thoughtsbecause you're not even aware of what that thinking (picture) is!

So when you say to yourself, "I will not overeat!" Your conscious brain(1/6)can give this true meaning, but your nonconscious brain (5/6) sees apicture of, "Overeat!" "Overeat"!

And boy does your nonconscious listen to you!! It is not at alluncommon forpeople who want to lose weight to actually gain weight!

Have you ever said to your children, "Whatever you do, don't spill themilk!"?

Five/Sixth of their brain, sees a perfect picture of what?

That's right! "Spill the milk!"

Kids listened well at my house. They always spilled the milk.

How do you solve this problem?

Now that you know the scientific basis, it's easy. You've got to getyour nonconscious brain, 5/6 of your brain-power, in line with yourconscious, willpower brain, 1/6 of your brain-power.

You must use your imagination to dream and visualize all of the positivebenefits you can gain by losing ten pounds and bombard your nonconsciousbrain with these pictures so that your entire brain is working towardthesame end.

Instead of saying "I will not overeat!" say, "I am fit, and thin,because I eathealthy foods!" See yourself doing so as you say this!

Also, start seeing yourself doing the things you will be able to doafteryou lose weight.

Start visualizing every single benefit of that goal.

Then your entire brain is working in the same direction. And no matterwhatyour goal is, weight-loss or other great goals, your success will beautomatically guaranteed. You won't need willpower anymore.

After about thirty days of imagining and visualizing your success,your brain will have created enough new neurode connection-patterns, sothatit will automatically take the steps necessary to reach your goals.

You won't have to do it; your brain will do it for you!

Willpower is overrated! Oh, it's still important. You need to use it tomake the initial decision to change.

But once that decision to change is made with willpower,use your imagination in your nonconscious brain to make that willpowerdecision stick, permanently!

Procrastination will disappear, persistence and long term success andachievement will take its place. Not a thing you can do to stop it.

Your brain will be programmed for Success. Automatically! Trust YourGreatest Achievements to Neuroscience!



Have a nice day......

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Really great .

Really a very Inspiring Story !!!!!!!


My Salute & standing ovation to Rajani !!!!!!!!!!

Originally posted by : Rohit

Salute to such determination!!


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