Small lies affect the relationship

jyoti rani (secnderabad) (1852 Points)

04 May 2013  

As we all came across in our life in a relationship with someone which really becomes an important and special part of our life.

But still we hurt them; you all are thinking now why and how we hurt them if he/she became an important person in our life.

Answer is in our heart, a small word from which we all came across in our life.

Its a small “LIE”

We all in our life said to someone a lie in our life , it doesn’t matter whether it is big lie or a small lie.

We thought if we say this thing to that person it will hurt them, and because we always want to see them happy and a smile on their face we said a small lie to them.

It never effect us that time but somewhere in our mind its always running or reminding that I said to him/her a lie, whether it is wrong or right?

If she/he will come to know about that then what will happen? How she/he will react? What I tell to him/her that time?

All these question disturb us every time and the most important thing if that person came to know about that, It will hurt them more than our imagination, its effect a beautiful relationship, Its broke a trust between a relationship.

“Every little lie you lie brings us closer to goodbye”

“It takes two people to create a successful relationship.  It only takes one person to make it fail. “

Although some lies among the relationships are mostly harmless, they can be extremely dangerous and sometimes it is a major cause of a big fight and even breakups. If you happened to be recognized in some of the statistics may be is the right time to consider the consequences that could significantly affect your relationships or marriage.

Petty lies do not hurt, but could easily become a habit and turn into something much more serious.

If we take all this in a positive manner we will come to know that if that time only, we tell each and everything to that person, obviously it will hurt them more than our imagination but at the same point it will create a beautiful bonding between your relationships. A bonding of trust which no one breaks at any cost, a bonding of love which never decrease at any point of time, a bonding of care which they not do for anyone specially for that person.

So dear, now analyze and check one small lie if you hide it will break everything, but if you tell the same thing with believe it will create a immense beauty in your relationship.

So always try to tell truth, and far from lie.