How to Treat a Women

Be compassionate and understanding. Women like men who are compassionate and understanding and someone who genuinely cares. A woman wants to be able to say in her mind, "Oh what a good man." A woman wants a man to tell her often how important she is to him and as well as showing her that in his actions! Flowers, a gift, a card,for no reason, or even just a phone call or leaving a loving message on her voice mail while she is at work!!! All the little extra touches tell her she matters. It's also important for a man to be confident in himself and have dignity. To be both very loving and confident (not clingy and needy) is very attractive.

1. Give her thoughtful gifts -- women love surprises. Gifts don't always need to be expensive, but always from the heart. Gifts should never be about the "money". It's the thought involved and the reason behind it. It just shows you really care and she is the one you are thinking about.
    
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   Give flowers for no particular reason without waiting for a birthday or holiday. Even if you are away, you can order them online and have them delivered on the date you choose. Some of the best things are just a single flower she loves. Men sometimes think they have to be rich but it's the thought that matters most. Remember to send stuff to her office on occasion as a nice surprise. It isn't enough to make her feel important it's also important for others around her to see she's treated well.
    
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   When you are spending time with her, make sure she has your attention. Make sure you listen to her and talk to her. Just sitting beside her isn't always enough.
    
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   Understand that little things mean a lot! A love note, rose, sweet text message or things like this just to let her know you are thinking of her and care for her.
    
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   Never ever forget her birthday, Christmas, New Years, Valentines Day, Mother's Day--all her friends are getting little love gifts and acknowledgment and women compare how thoughtful their man was. If you want to be King then you better be on top of things. Anything is better than nothing.
    
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   Be polite and complimentary. Women like to hear "please", "I am sorry", "I promise" and "thank you." Also, ask her how her day is going. Just telling her she is wonderful often helps. Thank her for everything she does for you. In addition, recognize that there is more to her than the physical aspect. Compliment her efforts, like when she cooks or buys a nice meal.
    
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   Be a good listener. Have respect for her thoughts and opinions. Recognize her intelligence and strong points. Even if you don't agree with her, find good points from both perspective's. It's paramount to her knowing she is seen as a total person. Never cut her down, even if you are kidding. Find something unique about her that no one has ever told her about.
    
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   When you are in places where you can't be visibly affectionate, look at her andsmile lovingly.' Be a gentleman, open the doors for her, hold out your hand or arm for her, some say this is "old fashioned", not the case. It is a sign of respect, and just common courtesy in public for both s*xes. However, don't just do it in public, still common courtesy, at home also-put her first as she is a lady.
    
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   Be a good communicator. Listen to her, hear her out, and give eye contact to let her know you are giving full attention. Be interested in her. However, you also need to open up and tell her your thoughts, opinions, and problems, but wait until she is done telling you her thoughts. Do not interrupt. Help give ideas about possible solutions to problems, but praise her if she finds something other than what you suggest.
    
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    Brag about her to your friends and to hers. This is especially important as relationships grow. She'll like knowing she is appreciated and that his friends know you are in love with her.
     
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    In general, it's best not to say another woman is beautiful or attractive to you. Be respectful towards your woman in how you treat other women. Even if they are your friends. Any favors, gifts, gestures, looks, over-friendliness or flirting can be very threatening and is probably inappropriate. Don't compliment another woman on something that your girlfriend is struggling with or knows she just doesn't have (i.e.: a skill or something to do with appearance) this will only make your girl feel embarrassed and devalued.
     
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    Help around the house. If it needs to be done do it without expecting her to. Remember: Work is important, but the house work is both of your responsibility. Don't expect her to constantly pick up after you. One of the best ways to a woman's heart is to do house work!
     
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    Don't leave s*xuality completely up to the woman if you're in a relationship together. If you feel like the time is right, gently let her know how you feel. And when a women says she wants to spend quality time with you, don't assume she is thinking about the bedroom! Usually, she means spending time together one on one, whether you are in your PJ's watching a movie, or just going for a drive.
     
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    Tell her she is beautiful. "Pretty" and "hot" have their place, but "beautiful" goes right to the heart. Sometimes she'll look hot or s*xy, so tell her. Don't tell her too often that she is cute, she is after all a woman and not a child. Pay attention and know what part of her ego needs reinforcing.
     
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    Compliment her on things other than her looks. What are her special qualities? Is she creative, fascinating, funny? Do you admire her achievements and her outlook on life? Tell her! Look the woman straight in the eye when giving compliments.
     
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    If she gets annoyed or upset with something you did or did not do, apologize first. Be prepared to offer an explanation that is not defensive and not a cheap excuse. Speak gently and be sincere. Women are adept at reading sincerity. A sincere apology is the best way to get true forgiveness.
     
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    Accept her interest in hobbies that don't involve you. She does have a lot to share and wants to tell you all about it if you'll let her. Don't belittle it, because even if it's not something you're interested in, it means a lot her.
     
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    Avoid being jealous of male friends, co-workers, and exes without good reason. Assume she is trustworthy unless she proves otherwise.
     
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    Talk to your friends, co-workers, and family about how lovely she is, too. It will make her feel good, even if you think she won't know you said it. It's always best, anyway. (Women just know things. They're very intuitive.) Plus talking about her in such a nice way makes you want to see her as soon as possible, and only good things can come from that.
     
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    Always make sure you cherish her because in most cases she is going to be there when no one else is. If anyone says negative things about her (even behind her back), "stand up" and show them you are her man, tell them to stop; don't listen. Be and act worthy of her trust in and feelings for you.
     
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    Remember, she's a woman, and her thoughts about what she wants can change day by day. Don't get mad at her for it. Love her for it, because, hey, she's a woman, and you like that about her.
     
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    Never forget, compliments go a long way. You can't be mister charming at the beginning of the relationship and then, once you're involved, just stop the charm! That's not right, and it makes her feel like she's done something wrong to make you not feel that way anymore. Either that, or she'll feel like she was stupid for not seeing you for who you really were in the first place. If you're going to be charming and romantic, you have to stay that way. No matter how "comfortable" you are. A woman will feel like you are not interested in her anymore. If you are still interested you have to show her because telling her is not enough. A woman needs the man she fell in love with. Don't become detached and take her for granted. Call her, text her, and email her often, buy her flowers, chocolate, write a love note, tell her how special she is and that you miss her.
     
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    Romance her (courtship). Try to catch her attention and win her over. Even if you have her already, keep her! If you don't, other men will be there to give her the treatment she needs from you. Take charge, women like to feel swept away. If it is an anniversary of some sort, Men, listen up. Surprise her, especially if you don't surprise her with much. If you are with a highly respectable woman, money or gifts that cost too much are not the way to her heart. You will make a larger impression with a nice card and hand written words from your heart and a single rose, or small box of her favorite chocolates. And if you have a little money to put out, a simple necklace, or pretty earrings, can be found for little cash. It shows you put thought into your relationship and how much she means to you! Never ever ask a woman if you should get her something for an occasion. Women love gifts; as long as they are thoughtful, it won't matter if you spent anything on it. Make a card, do something corny in your own charming little way. They will remember it forever!
     
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    If you want to make her feel attractive to you, "Make Out". You can't skip steps! She loves and needs the steps it takes getting there. Even if you've gone that far before, this still applies. Kiss her, hold her, caress her, kiss her neck and look her in the eyes. Don't look bored, disinterested, or tired. She wants to feel special and s*xy.
     
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    Hold her hand all the time -- Hold her hand when you are walking in the public, or mall. Hold her hand like she's your woman and like you're proud to have her beside you. Touch her hand across the table, put your arm around her when your sitting together watching T.V. or at the movies. These gestures will all make her feel protected, special and loved.
     
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    Don't go out of your way to get the last word just to win an argument. It will make you look uneducated and selfish. Gently explain yourself and then give her time to answer. Learn to let it go. If she doesn't want to talk about it, then don't; it's not the end of the world. If she wants to talk about it, then hear her out.
     
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    Don't make and break plans without a very good explanation and an apology. Make sure you call and not text to make such changes.
     
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    Be on time. Always call as soon as you know you may or will be late. Do not wait to call, even though you think she will be angry. Not calling before you are late can or will make her frustrated, then worried, AND then angry.
     
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    Always take care of your girl -- make sure all her needs are met. Besides the necessities of life, she needs to know most of all that you love her and only her. Surprise her today with a small gift she will cherish forever-give her your heart.
     
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    Always be respectful to her parents, they mean the world to her. If you don't respect the parents, you might as well say goodbye to her.
     
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    A woman (actually people in general) can be very temperamental at times. Respect her wishes when she needs space to breathe. Do your best to listen to her and provide tender loving care. Touch her, give her a long hug, make some tea, or give her chocolate; it can make all the difference.
     
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    If you love her and can't imagine your life without her then make the commitment. Ask yourself this question, "If she walked out the door tomorrow could you and would you want to live your life without her in it?" If the answer is no, then ask her to marry you and mean it. Show her you mean it by buying a ring and tell her that you don't want to spend the rest of your life without her by your side. Tell her why you love her, what she means to you, why she's special, and why you're asking her to marry you. Trust me, she won't want to be your girlfriend forever. Most women want the stability of marriage and a husband who can provide and protect her.