There are lots of techniques to improve concentration like meditation, focus, tai chi  and such more sorts of things. But still for doing all these things we need at least our 5 min of cool and calm mind to do them at best .  no wonder, we almost fail every day to draw out such 5 minutes from our daily routine.

Suppose when even u sit for prayer…your wish list and problem list goes on increasing. In short bhagwan bhi sochta hoga …. “ kya yaar

…kahan tak solve karu iski prob” ok joke apart. Be serious from now.

But yeah on the broad lines everyone’s problem is just focused on three aspects :-

How to concentrate when

·         I know I didn’t succeed.

·        I know I am emotionally hurt

·        I know I am financially unstable

 Didn’t succeed è

            Just like the past success inert in our mind, similarly our failure as well. Its difficult to move out from such emotions. Whenever you really want to put your efforts forthwith hard work, your emotions start pulling you back and make you remember of your defeat. And repetition of failure word makes it sorrier.  But always remember that grief comes from heart and logics from mind. Whenever your mind says your defeat was impossible and how could it all happen. Then think for logics and find the loopholes out there.

 Reverse thoughts ç

 Sometime defeats create such skeptics in our mind that we are bound to suspect our own capabilities. We think our efforts can never be up to the expectation of ICAI mark. But I just wanna ask to all those persons do you really think that you deserve another defeat to get succeed .

Just before you think you might not pass or you should try to give next attempt. This time I am not prepared well. Then simply ask from yourself “how much time you really need”

Example +++

Suppose you gave first group exam in May 2011. And you thought you might pass. But you couldn’t succeed, both your total dint got minimum aggregate or failed due to accounts .After announcement of results you feel very disheartened and then you thought to give both groups. But after some days you start feeling “I will give one group only because I have not much time left”

 

And after so many days your negative thinking led you same way …… “I am still not prepared. Will I pass or not?”

 

Suggestion

 

 

Suggestions

 

1.      Before you think to give up just think do you really need it ?

2.     How much did you prepared in the other group as well ?

3.     If you failed in one group it doesn’t mean that you don’t know anything.

4.     If days are less then it doesn’t mean you should give up, rather you should focus on this point that you have put so much hard work in this. How can you let your endeavor ended in smoke?

5.     Just make your mind determined ‘ this is my chance and I CAN DO IT”

 

If you waiting for the right time to come when everything will be fine and when you know each and everything. Then remember that time can’t come .  

 

Conclusion

Time is not the real limit to describe our potential. Because we can exceed the time from nov to may very easily. But main focus is about  when we really wanna meet success. Wish you luck

 

 

Regards

renu

my next part will come tomorrow in this serious .....

i forget everything i learn

 

and plz dont take anything personal. take care

nice article ... 

i wish to add my perception on it ....

whenever i feel like giving up i feel the end result of giving up 

like if i am not serious about my studies and exams are in november and now just 57 days left ... i will think of result in january which will fail me if i continued like this 

just that thought for 5 mins charge me up and motivate me to study hard and increase my concentration level as well

i knw this is a negative thinking apporach but i have always benefitted from it 

Thanks Renu......... Very Good tips for all of us......

We should not let the negative thinking affect us..... we should be positive during exams.....

All the best to all the examinees....

do you really think that you deserve another defeat to get succeed

Nice lines & again a very good one Renu....

As ususal another gr8 article from Renu........

Hats off.....

great article                                   

VERY NICE

Nice Work....M fan of you...

You have written very good articles and files u have shared....

All your words are very mature and exactly Straight to point...

Which is easy to capture the mind......

Thank You and Keep Sharing.........

Failure can shake your very Basics…

& phir Concentration ki aisi ki taisi ho jaati hai !!!

 

You have shown this very well in your writing.

I also liked the last part..

If you are waiting for the right time…it won’t ever come.